I don’t believe that there is a man out there that would ever want to be labeled as boring or downright terrible in bed. Let’s admit it when your woman is dissatisfied you are usually the last to know about it. There is good reason for this. Women fall in love with personality, not sex. Chances are she really loves you so she doesn’t want to hurt your ego or relationship by telling you that she’s not being satisfied. Most women will simply deal with it. All that being said I thought I would point out some things that women hate in bed to help you possibly get some new sparks flying around the bedroom tonight.

Don’t be so careful
Phases such as “can I?” are NOT very sexy. You can consider them mood killers. You should be able to tell if your partner is in the mood. A lover should know how to let her know his next step and how he is to prepare her for it without words. Often it is just enough to look in a “sexual” way or a provocatively caress her body to give that sign of sex.

“Mechanical sex”
Passionless sex is boring to most women, just a time spent without a particular purpose. No woman wants to feel like an inflatable woman. This doesn’t mean that every time you have sex it has to be explosive in order to please her, but you shouldn’t just ignore the fact that every woman craves a little passion; keep that is mind. You shouldn’t only have sex but also make love to show her that she means more.

Monotony
Your lover should not know every single crack in your ceiling; if this is the case you’re in trouble. But don’t have a panic attack yet. Simply change where you do it. Try your bathroom, kitchen, car or even on a beach the possibilities are endless. Turn your imagination on.

Making noises, moaning and talking
There is a fine line of moaning too loud and being too quiet. Both are irritating to women. Silence is not an option. Play carefully here and try to find the happy median to express your feelings and pleasure to your partner but not to the neighbors. Try to change things up each time so as not to use the same words during sex every time, try to find different phrases to say how sexy she looks, how awesome she is in bed and don’t repeat the same three words over and over again.

Unwillingness to experiment
A good rule of thumb is don’t be afraid to experiment. It doesn’t matter how attractive someone can be sex does get boring, and it is all in your control. Try different things such as positions, role-playing, and so on; give life to your fantasies. Do the things you long for of course if your partner agrees and it should spice up your sex life majorly. Talk to your partner about your fantasies. It this is something that worries you to discuss than have a few drinks and start opening up; you might just be surprised how fast your partner can turn them into realities. I hope this has been helpful. I believe if you practice some of these small steps they should improve your sex life. Women are not looking for Casanova in men, but are looking for the effort out of their men to show that they care. So try to get off of boring and start being exiting and do things that are unexpected. Surprising her from time to time will spice things up and keep her on her ties guessing. She will be eating out of your hands, (so to speak), in no time.

MT
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