In the past the definition of premature ejaculation used to be when a man ejaculates under three minute of penetration into a woman’s vagina, but it seems present definitions of premature ejaculation has made it a relative issue meaning premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates before he wishes to do so or before his lover has achieved an orgasm.

What this means is as long as a woman as not achieved an orgasm her lover should not ejaculate. Sexual intercourse is about pleasing both partners not only the man. So if during sex you ejaculate before your lover you suffer from premature ejaculation because you are unable to control your ejaculation.

Some sex therapists encourage men suffering from premature ejaculation to use some silly form of distraction techniques. What they say is that you should be thinking of something else when you feel you are almost reaching your orgasm. Like thinking of your annoying boss or your income tax! But you know what? That sucks.

I look forward to having sex with a beautiful chick and then when I am actually “doing it” I start thinking of something else!! To me that’s plain rubbish.

Another method is the use of numbing sprays/creams for reducing the sensitivity on a man’s penis so he can last longer. Hmmm there is only one small problem, my penis feels numb when I use that method and I must use a condom or else my lover’s vagina also feels numb and may cause a reaction to our skins.

So what’s the point of punishing ourselves, sorry I meant having sex when my penis feels numb and my lovers vagina also feels numb, Errgg I think watching a movie with my sweetheart would be a better option if sex has to feel numb.

Some other techniques like masturbating before actual sex, stop and start and squeeze method were all bunches of failures when I tried them to help stop my embarrassing problem of premature ejaculation.

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